Akaya Windwood, blog, no more expertsYears ago before taking up the work of leading Rockwood, I was an organizational consultant. I was paid to be right – to be an expert. However, as I sit here at my current desk, I realize how very little I really knew about the everyday running of and caring for an organization. Now I’m not going to disparage or disrespect the work I did during my many years in organizational development, but I must admit that I would be a much better consultant today, having been in this seat for awhile.

And I’m hardly an expert at running an organization, even as I do it every day. The truth is, there are many times when I ask myself “what on earth am I doing?” That question keeps me humble and keeps my feet on the ground. At the same time I feel both internal and external pressures to be right, correct, to be the expert on whatever I’m undertaking. I don’t think I’m alone in this struggle – many leaders I know grapple mightily with the expectations of expertise. This is a problem for our world in general and in the nonprofit sector specifically.

The push to provide (and often pretend) expertise when we’re really not sure about things can get us into a lot of trouble. It’s unhealthy for leaders, because pretending expertise is stressful. It’s quite challenging to try and maintain inauthenticity over time. It’s unhealthy for our organizations, because if people are feigning skills, it can be difficult to hire the right people into the right positions. It’s toxic. So I’m going to coin a new term – Expert Delusional Syndrome, or EDS.

What if we were to stop being “experts” for awhile? What if we were to spend most of our time in “I don’t know”? What might be possible if we were to listen for our own and each others’ wisdom (which comes from the heart) contrasted to looking for the expert in ourselves and each other?

Many years ago I took a class in quantum physics, in which we learned that the universe is made up of about 4% matter, and about 96% of what is called “dark matter” or “dark energy.” It turns out that astronomers have only a few guesses about what dark matter/energy might be. We have some degree of clarity only on 4% of all that exists. The rest is conjecture. In other words, we haven’t a clue about what comprises most of the vast and amazing universe in which we reside. How cool is that?

Let’s move to oceans. Guess how much of the oceans that support and nourish life on our planet have been explored? Wait for it… 5%. Yep, we know about as much about our oceans as we do the universe. Not much. Equally cool.

Now we come to ourselves, our own brains. While I can’t quote you a statistic, I can say with some confidence that we don’t know much about how the brain works, or even where it begins and ends in our bodies. We have many myths about the brain, but very few certainties. For those of you who like to nerd out on these kinds of things, here’s a good start.

So we don’t know much about the universe, our oceans or what’s going on inside our noggins. Again, how cool is this!? It’s wonderful because it liberates us to honestly claim that we are perfectly fine if we don’t know. In fact, I would argue that the space of “I don’t know” can be the most powerful stance for a leader to take. In “I don’t know” all things are possible – we are not limited to only what we’ve managed to learn or experience. It opens us to learning and growing with and from each other.

So what’s a cure for EDS? Partnership. There is not a single one among us who knows it all, but collectively we might know a bunch – perhaps 8 or even 10% of what there is to be known. I like that.

Let’s experiment. Let’s try on “I don’t know” for a season. If you choose to join me in this experiment, let’s discuss what we’re learning here on our blog. Spring is right around the corner, so we have a few more days to get ourselves ready – how about we make Spring 2013 the season of no experts? Let’s jettison any expectation that we must know everything or that anyone around us knows it all either. Let’s relax and see what’s possible if we ask a lot of questions and offer very few answers. Might be amazing what we could learn – perhaps we might even double our collective intelligence.

From my heart to yours,

Akaya
March 2013

8 Comments

  • Ronna Warsh says:

    Love it The space of I dont know without judgement is a wonder

  • Jean says:

    What a beautiful idea. Not only does the world of “I don’t know” open leaders up to new learning and new ideas, it’s also wonderfully effective in creating a cohesive group that all pulls together to find answers. Trained as a scientist, I have always felt most comfortable trying to know the unknown. But over time I’ve forgotten that joy. Thanks for the reminder.

  • Akaya, I love this! I don’t know. Maybe Kafka was on to something when he said, “The totality of all questions and answers is contained in the dog.” Then again, what do we know about dogs.

  • Roberto says:

    Love it! It makes it easier to relax into our various work relationships, identify the pertinent questions together and then discover together. I’m on!

  • Liane Rozzell says:

    Thank you for this! I have been struggling with this lately as I am re-positioning myself to do consulting work, where the temptation is to claim expertise bordering on omniscience, at least on your topic. This is anxiety-provoking in the extreme. Now I realize I don’t have to do that. I can dial back and offer my wisdom, experience, and willingness to partner with folks to explore solutions together, rather than claiming to be able to solve all of their problems.

  • Ahava says:

    What inspiring, wise words. Thank you Akaya, I have been feeling this way for a while, as I negotiate the tension between being a business woman who needs to plan and be the expert to sell, and being a teacher and artist who values not-knowing, improvisation and creative collaboration. I am definitely up for the challenge.
    Here’s to relaxing and living, loving, leading through the unknown with joy in our emerging partnered discoveries and awe in the vastness of the mystery ever to be explored and honoured.

  • I think that the call to be a not knower, to say I don’t know, is a great one. It is a worthwhile experiment — and a great way to be in the world.

    Perhaps it isn’t so much giving up being an expert, but giving up being an expert in knowing.

    I think you could describe me as an expert in not knowing and in leading from that vantage point. I teach people how to do that to not know, and to be creative discoverers – in such a way that they can unravel the web of assumptions (things they think they know) they have – about themselves, about others and their problems – that prevents them from living life in gratifying ways.

    We teach people to engage in the activity of not knowing which means that I teach people to ask questions, to cultivate curiosity, and create possibility, as a way of life personally and professionally.

    Great topic. Thank you.

  • Sandra Bass says:

    Love this. This post dovetails nicely with a piece Peter Buffet wrote for the NYT this past Sunday on the Charitable Industrial Complex.

    Curiosity and humility are the doorways to greater understanding and creating new realities together. Looking forward to following this conversation on your blog.